The Science of Happy Marriage: A Workshop for Couples
Lead by Carol J. Bruess, PhD
 
Event co-hosted by: Lumen Christi Catholic Community, Highland Catholic School and the College of Saint Benedict and Saint John’s University

Marriage is hard work, but intentionally creating a flourishing marriage is the very most important work we do. According to the best relationship science, the daily micro-moments of turning toward our spouses are among the most significant gifts we can give not only each other, but also our children and grandchildren— the people for whom we are modeling how to create and sustain flourishing relationships. In this workshop, relationship social scientist Dr. Carol Bruess will share not only the science of happy marriage but give you and your partner evidence-based tools for creating more joy in your marriage. Come ready to take notes and receive some simple, easy-to-implement marriage boosting homework.

Event details:
Saturday, April 11, 2026
10 a.m. - 2 p.m.
Lumen Christi Community Room
2055 Bohland Ave, St. Paul, MN 55116

Accessible entry and facilities
Ample free parking

Registration deadline: April 3, 2026

Cost: $60/couple (includes snacks, beverages, lunch and a book for each couple, “The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work” by Dr. John Gottman.)

About the workshop leader:
Carol J. Bruess (rhymes with “peace”), PhD, is CSB+SJU Scholar in Residence for Relationships & Dialogue, and Professor Emerita of Communication and Family Studies at the University of St. Thomas, MN. For more than three decades she has been an educator, researcher, author and speaker who is passionate about how humans create healthy relationships through micro-moments of interaction and ritual. Carol is particularly interested in the impact of the digital age on in-depth listening, robust conversations and human empathy. She has published five books and has a popular TEDx Talk: “Are All Relationships Messy?” Her spouse of 34 years, Brian Bruess, is President of College of Saint Benedict and Saint John’s University. They are parents of Tony (29) and Gracie (26) and currently raising George, a 99lb Bernedoodle who is a certified therapy dog happily serving Saint Ben’s and Saint John’s students as puppy-in-residence.